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I am a straight woman who is in love with a ftm man. We are best friends and first met on the internet years ago. From the moment we met we clicked immediately and the connection was very strong. Pretty soon he told me he is ftm and though I was surprised it did not bother me... on the contrary I was very interested as I didn't know much about gender dysphoria at all and he has taught me so much and I am very glad I know all this now.
As I said we have been friends for years... I consider him my best friend...he is wonderful, we can, and do, talk about anything together and the amount of sharing and caring between us is incredible to me... About a year ago the relationship shifted and we both admitted a certain attraction to one another.... that attraction grew steadily and today we are, I pretty much consider, partners... that is how intense and mutual the feelings are on both sides... Soon we will meet I hope as we are in different countries....
My only concern and it is not a really big one is that I have only ever been with biological men before.... my partner and I have discussed this and he has told me that there are many ways to make love to a woman and I truly understand this but.... I am worried because I don't know how to make love to him, i have no experience in this at all and when I meet him I want to be able to fully express my love....He is fully male to me and I have researched on the internet the 'ins and outs' of ftm genitalia etc, not for morbid curiosity but so that I can picture him in my dreams etc.... he is fully transitioned on T years ago but is pre upper surgery and this concerns him mostly....
I guess my question is this and I realise the response may be different per person but....how do us straight women satisfy our ftm lovers when we have no experience and is it a big problem in the beginning of relationships? I don't imagine it to be.... I think he and I could get through that pretty easily and we are very open and have discusesed things quite often. I care for him too much and don't believe at all that what lies between your legs makes you a man... he has already shown me that he is a man by his behaviour and to me, he is more manly than many men I know..... I just want to be able to fully give to him when I meet him and I want to love him as he deserves to be loved....he is the most wonderful person I have met, I trust him with everything. Any similar stories or advice would be greatly appreciated.
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`I'm surprised no one answered this post and I sincerely hope you come back. FTMs really like the same things other men like. Most like hand jobs and oral --- and genital to genital contact/grinding. Some have hangups and don't want their genitals touched. Some have more unique ------ interests. As for technique and what makes them happy, you have to ask the individual guy.
He may or may not want to have --- with his binder on. He may or may not want to be touched in certain areas. You really have to ask. I hope your meetup goes well and you're able to have a happy, loving time together.
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d3claire
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`I know nothing about this but by the sounds of how much you love each other I don't think you need to worry you's will work something out that gives you both pleasure x
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